Alzheimer's Society issues expert advice on how to include people with dementia during Diwali

Religious festivals like Diwali are typically a time for family, feasting, dancing and celebration. However, it can be difficult to know how to support a loved one with dementia.

Diwali is celebrated over five days and this year starts on Sunday 12 November. Keeping a few things in mind when organising gatherings or celebrations can help everyone to feel included and enjoy the occasion.

Marion Child, Regional Manager for Alzheimer's Society in the South West, offers some advice for a dementia-friendly Diwali.

1. Create a 'quiet room' – Having a house full of people can be overwhelming for people with dementia. Noises from loud music, fireworks and multiple conversations can be confusing, and may cause anxiety. A 'quiet room' or space where they can spend quality time with family members includes them in the celebrations in a calmer way.
2. Plan some Diwali themed activities – Think of the ways the person may have celebrated Diwali in the past and ask them if there is anything they might like to do to celebrate this year. Share photo albums, music and songs that conjure up special memories for them.
3. Celebratory food and drink – People with dementia may need gentle reminders to eat and drink, particularly if there are other distractions. Think about a small finger buffet of their favourite treats, as a large plate of food can be daunting for a person living with dementia.
4. Decorating for Diwali – if you are planning to decorate or to move things around for Diwali, try to introduce any changes gradually. Dementia can affect a person's visual perception, so try to keep your home brightly lit and use good colour contrast. Avoid patterns that might be misunderstood – for example pictures of fruit might be mistaken for actual fruit, and other patterns might be confusing to a person living with dementia. 
5. Seek out support - Everyone experiences dementia differently and what works for one person might not work for someone else. Whoever you are and whatever you are going through, you can turn to Alzheimer's Society for confidential support and advice all year round.

Marion Child continues: "There are an estimated 92,510 people living with dementia in the South West.

"Including people with dementia in the Diwali celebrations can evoke happy memories and create new ones, and can really enhance their wellbeing."